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I’ll be sending the camera I used to take all the pictures you stole out of my house. The camera you couldn’t even load film in. I bought it on your honeymoon. Can you even name the make and model? I doubt it. You never used it. And yet, YOU STOLE MY LIFE’S WORK OF…

Everyone continues to dance around how their behavior affected me over 30 years. All the fingers continue to point at me. Everyone continues to be in complete denial for their participation. None of you is faultless any more than I am the complete blame. A dynamic I’ve had forced down my throat my whole life.…

If I were drowning my loved ones would throw me rocks . Catholics. Go figure #DePalo #Mead #Lewis #families #catholics #hate #greed #children #die #love #respect

Drove from Endicott to Syracuse to Rochester to Toronto, picked up a couch for Grazia, back to Rochester to drop off Mike, brother in law #2 who helped. Back to Syracuse and back to Endicott in 1 day so Grazia could buy a couch from some relative. 600 mile round trip in 1 day. I…

Make no mistake, our children were never our children. Your children always belonged to Joe and Anna, Grazia and Tina and your extended family. I was merely the sperm donor and ATM for 30+ years. I will continue to tell stories in this space honestly, from my perspective. I’ll do it without such enthusiasm. Your…

The collective and continued ignorance displayed by all cements the reasoning behind this blog. THAT CHRISTIANITY AND CATHOLICISM BE DAMNED TO HELL. OUR DEVOTION TO THE FAITH BE DAMNED TO HELL. WE HAVE TO DESTROY, TO CRUSH, THEN DISREGARD MY VERY EXISTENCE. TEN COMMANDMENTS BE DAMNED TO HELL. WE HAVE VENGEANCE IN OUR HEARTS AND…

Let me get this straight….after 35 years of being married into the DePalo Klan….. My behavior has had the exact same negative affect on everyone involved. My behavior has not in any way benefited any of you. That collectively you don’t owe me anything. Not even basic human respect. That your behaviors have not affected…

Once Lore and Micaela walked out, the house on tilbury hill became my place. Somehow my life’s work of photography disappeared from MY PLACE without discussion or permission. Stolen out of my home. Fought for a month to get the dregs in a shoe box. Left behind were the wedding shower, wedding and honeymoon albums.…

Lore wanted to create a memory day before Tyler left for college. So, on the day of the inaugural Running Tigers XC Race, where were my son and my wife in support of my efforts? On a college visit to St. Joseph’s in Pennsylvania. A school we could not afford, a school he did not…

Parenting went like this….Lore would say “I want or my mother wants or my mother and I decided or Grazia and I decided.” Tina just followed along despite her non verbal communication that screamed “I know this isn’t right but I’m too afraid to say anything plus it’s to my advantage.” And with Lore’s constant…